What "Dying Intestate" Actually Means
Dying "intestate" means dying without a legally valid will. When this happens, state law — not your wishes — determines who inherits your assets. The process is called "intestate succession."
Every state has a statutory inheritance hierarchy that applies when someone dies without a will. The hierarchy typically goes: surviving spouse first, then children, then parents, then siblings, then more remote relatives. If no qualifying relatives exist, the estate "escheats" to the state.
The consequences of dying intestate:
- Your wishes don't matter. The person you wanted to inherit may not be your legal heir.
- Unmarried partners inherit nothing. Without a will or registered domestic partnership (in states recognizing it), an unmarried partner is a legal stranger to the estate — regardless of how long you were together.
- Stepchildren are excluded. Stepchildren you haven't legally adopted do not inherit under intestate law in any state.
- Close friends are excluded. No matter how close, friends have no intestate inheritance rights.
- Probate still happens — and is usually more expensive. Intestate estates require bond (usually), more court oversight, and heir research.
- Minor children's guardian is determined by the court without your input.
Importantly: dying without a will does not mean your estate skips probate. It just changes who receives the assets after probate.
What Does the Surviving Spouse Inherit Intestate?
Spousal inheritance in intestate succession is the most complex area — it depends on whether there are children, whose children they are, and whether the state has community property rules.
Non-community property states
The spouse's share depends on whether there are children and whether those children are joint (both spouses') or from prior relationships. Typical UPC tiered structure:
- Spouse only (no children, no parents): 100%
- Spouse + parents (no children): $200,000 + 3/4 of remainder (UPC); or 100% in some states
- Spouse + joint children only: 100% (UPC) or 50-67% depending on state
- Spouse + decedent's prior-relationship children: $100,000 + 1/2 remainder (UPC)
Community property states (AZ, CA, ID, LA, NM, NV, TX, WA, WI)
The surviving spouse already owns half of all community property. Under intestate law, the decedent's half of community property typically passes entirely to the surviving spouse. Separate property follows different rules — often split between spouse and children.
New Mexico: the clearest community property example
Decedent's community property share → 100% to surviving spouse (regardless of children). Decedent's separate property → 100% to spouse if no children; 1/4 to spouse + 3/4 to children if children exist. This creates a strong incentive for couples to hold assets as community property (or to write a will providing for children's inheritance from separate assets). See our New Mexico probate guide →
Intestate Succession: Selected States
Every state's intestate law differs. Below are the rules for 14 major states. For your specific state, see the complete state guide →
| State | Key Situation | Spouse's Share | Type |
|---|---|---|---|
| Alabama | Spouse + children | Spouse: $50K + 1/2 remainder; children: rest | No UPC |
| Alaska | Spouse + children | UPC tiered share: $100K–$300K + fraction | UPC |
| Arizona | Community + separate property rules | Community property: all to spouse; Separate: varies | CP + UPC |
| California | Community + separate property | Community property: all to spouse; Separate: 1/2–all | Community property |
| Colorado | Spouse + children | UPC tiered: $100K–$300K + fraction | UPC |
| Florida | Spouse + descendants | Spouse: all if all descendants joint; else 1/2 | Non-UPC |
| Georgia | Spouse + children | Spouse = child share; all equal | Non-UPC |
| Hawaii | Spouse/DP + children | UPC tiered; registered domestic partners = spouses | UPC + DP rights |
| Illinois | Spouse + children | Spouse: 1/2; children: 1/2 | Non-UPC |
| Maine | Spouse + children | UPC tiered: $100K–$200K + fraction | UPC |
| New Mexico | Community + separate | Community: all to spouse; Separate: 1/4 spouse + 3/4 children | CP + UPC |
| New York | Spouse + children | Spouse: $50K + 1/2 remainder; children: rest | Non-UPC |
| Texas | Community + separate | Community property: all to spouse if all children joint; else partial | Community property |
| Washington DC | Spouse/DP + children | Spouse/DP: 2/3 if joint children; 1/2 if blended | Non-UPC + DP rights |
How a Will Changes Everything
A valid will gives you complete control over: who inherits (and in what shares), who serves as executor, who becomes guardian of your minor children, what happens to specific items of personal property, and whether your estate avoids the additional expense of intestate administration (bond, greater court oversight).
The cost of having an attorney draft a simple will: $300–$1,000. The cost of dying intestate with a $500,000 estate in California: $13,000+ in attorney fees, plus higher executor costs, plus the wrong people may inherit. A will is one of the highest-return-on-investment legal documents that exists.
Online wills and DIY options
Online will services (LegalZoom, Trust & Will, Willmaker, etc.) offer simple wills starting at $89–$199. For straightforward situations (married couple with children, clear wishes), these can work. For complex situations (blended families, significant assets, business interests, real estate in multiple states, special needs beneficiaries), an estate planning attorney is worth the investment. Find one through your state bar's lawyer referral service — most state bars are listed in each state guide →
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